Why does he keep pursuing me

Dear The Chased, Sometimes I hate the players and the game. Sometimes actively, sometimes just when the opportunity to speak with you comes up. It seems illogical and probably is because, why keep trying when he could go get his fix from someone else?

He can get a hook up from another girl AND still try to pursue you when he talks to you. You can just say yes to spending time together. Insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting a different result. So, do something different. Luckily, he mustered up what dignity he had left and asked again, and as it turns out, the third time was the charm. Even rock stars and celebrities have to do some pursuing.

Honestly, that kind of freaks us out. When Rob Thomas met his future wife, Marisol, she apparently was not impressed with him or his appearance, and he had to pursue, as well. It all goes back to not making yourself too accessible. Texting incessantly — especially two hours after you met him to say how much you liked the shirt that he wore tonight. Nothing drains the elusive female mystique faster than a text message that showcases your innermost thoughts and feelings.

Texting does not leave him wanting more. Social network interaction — nothing says overzealous like a creepy MySpace friend request, and I have yet to meet a girl that ended up with a guy she stalked online.

Until then, the key is to keep him wanting more. All rights reserved. IE 11 is not supported. For an optimal experience visit our site on another browser. Share this —. So-So into Mr. Sexy AF. Then, out of nowhere, that same eager man stops calling as much, stops trying to see you, gets busy, and eventually you stop speaking altogether.

Why did he do that? No matter whom you date. Men who are pushy about dating you tend to just always be pushy. By continuing to use this site, you agree to our updated Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. MadameNoire is a sophisticated lifestyle publication that gives African-American women the latest in fashion trends, black entertainment news, parenting tips and beauty secrets that are specifically for black women. Black women seek information on a wide variety of topics including African-American hair care, health issues, relationship advice and career trends - and MadameNoire provides all of that.

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